The Difficult Road Wasn't the Wrong Road...
If you had asked me years ago what kind of life I wanted, I would have described a road that was smooth.
A road without heartache.
A road without brokenness.
A road where answers came quickly and faith came easily.
Instead, God led me down roads I never would have chosen.
Growing up in a home with an alcoholic abusive father wasn't the road I wanted.
Walking through the healing process at Mercy Ministries wasn't the road I expected.
There have been seasons of waiting, disappointment, difficult decisions, and moments when I wondered why God wasn't taking the easier route.
At the time, none of those roads felt beautiful.
They felt exhausting.
Lonely.
Confusing.
Sometimes they even felt unfair.
But I've learned something over the years:
Just because a road is difficult doesn't mean you're headed in the wrong direction.
In fact, some of God's greatest work happens on the roads we would gladly avoid.
When I look back now, I don't just see the pain. I see God's fingerprints.
I see how He used broken places to teach me what His grace really looks like.
I see how He replaced fear with faith.
I see how He taught me that my identity wasn't rooted in where I came from, but in whose I am.
If my life had always been easy, I don't know that I would have learned to trust Him as deeply as I do today.
That's the strange thing about faith.
It grows best in places where we have no choice but to depend on God.
God Rarely Chooses the Easy Road
Think about the people throughout Scripture.
Joseph's road went through betrayal, slavery, and prison before it reached the palace.
Moses spent forty years in the wilderness before leading Israel to freedom.
David was hunted before he wore a crown.
Ruth experienced devastating loss before becoming part of the lineage of Jesus.
Even Jesus walked the road to the cross before there was an empty tomb.
The difficult road wasn't evidence that God had abandoned them.
It was the very road He used to fulfill His purpose.
Why should we expect our journey to be any different?
We Want Deliverance. God Wants Transformation.
So often, when I was younger, I prayed, "Lord, get me out of this."
Sometimes He did.
Other times, He's said, "Stay close to Me while I bring you through it."
Looking back, I'm thankful He didn't answer every prayer the way I wanted Him to.
If He had removed every hardship, I might have missed the lessons He wanted to teach me.
I might never have discovered that His strength really is made perfect in weakness.
I might never have experienced the peace that only comes when everything else has been stripped away.
The destination God was leading me toward wasn't simply a better life.
It was a deeper relationship with Him.
And that is far more beautiful than an easy road could ever provide.
Don't Despise the Road You're On
Maybe today you're walking a road you never imagined.
A road marked by grief.
A broken relationship.
Financial struggles.
Health concerns.
Unanswered prayers.
Or simply a season where God feels quiet.
Can I encourage you?
Don't mistake difficulty for God's absence.
The road may be steep.
It may be long.
It may not look anything like you planned.
But if you're walking with Christ, you're never walking alone.
One day you'll look back and realize that what felt like your greatest obstacle became one of God's greatest tools in shaping your faith.
Paul reminds us in Romans 8:28:
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him, who have been called according to His purpose."
Notice that Scripture doesn't say all things are good.
Some roads are painful.
Some chapters are heartbreaking.
But God is able to redeem every mile for His glory and our good.
The difficult road isn't always the destination.
Sometimes it's the place where God molds our character, strengthens our faith, and teaches us that His presence is enough.
And when we finally arrive where He has been leading us all along, we often discover that the most beautiful destination wasn't a place at all.
It was becoming more like Christ.
Because in the end, that's the destination God has always been after.







