(taken from The Bible App)

The Door Is Still Open...

Have you ever ignored a knock at your front door? I know I have.

Maybe you weren't expecting anyone. Maybe you were busy. Maybe you simply didn't feel like answering.

The person on the other side eventually leaves.

But there's one knock we should never ignore.

In Revelation 3:20, Jesus says:

"Here I am! I stand at the door and knock."

Notice something remarkable about this verse. Jesus doesn't force His way in. He doesn't kick the door down. He doesn't demand entrance into our lives.

He knocks.

That simple image tells us so much about the heart of God. He desires a relationship with us, but He gives us the choice to respond. Love that is forced isn't love at all. Jesus patiently invites us to welcome Him into every part of our lives.

The question is, are we listening?

Sometimes the noise of life drowns out His voice. We're consumed with work, schedules, social media, finances, relationships, and the endless demands of everyday life. Before we know it, we've become so busy that we've stopped paying attention to the One who's been knocking all along.

Other times, we hear Him—but hesitate to answer.

Maybe we're holding on to sin we don't want to surrender.

Maybe we're carrying hurt that makes it difficult to trust.

Maybe we're afraid of what following Christ will require.

Or maybe we've convinced ourselves that we'll open the door "someday."

But Jesus isn't looking for perfect people. He's looking for willing hearts.

One of the most beautiful parts of this verse is what happens after the door is opened.

"I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me."

In biblical times, sharing a meal wasn't just about eating. It represented friendship, fellowship, acceptance, and intimacy. Jesus isn't offering a quick visit. He's inviting us into a daily relationship with Him.

He wants to walk with us through our victories and our struggles.

He wants to comfort us in our grief.

He wants to guide us when we're uncertain.

He wants to celebrate with us, correct us, strengthen us, and remind us that we're never alone.

Too often, we treat Jesus like an emergency contact—someone we call only when life falls apart. But He longs to be much more than our crisis counselor. He wants to be Lord of every room in our hearts.

It's also worth remembering who these words were originally written to. Jesus was speaking to the church in Laodicea, a church that had grown spiritually lukewarm. They looked successful on the outside but had become self-sufficient and distant from Him.

That makes this verse deeply personal for believers today.

It's possible to know about Jesus without walking closely with Him.

It's possible to attend church while keeping certain areas of your life closed off.

It's possible to appear spiritually healthy while quietly drifting away.

Yet even then, Jesus doesn't walk away.

He knocks.

Patiently.

Lovingly.

Faithfully.

No matter how long it's been, His invitation remains the same.

Today, we should ask ourselves:

Have I truly opened the door to Jesus?

Or have I only allowed Him into the rooms I'm comfortable sharing?

He isn't asking for a guest pass.

He's asking for our heart.

And the beautiful truth is this: the moment we open the door, we'll discover He wasn't coming to condemn us—He was coming to have fellowship with us.

His grace is greater than our failures.

His mercy is greater than our past.

His love is greater than our fears.

The knock is still there.

The invitation still stands.

The only question left is...

Will we open the door?

We Didn't Get Everything Right… But We Got This Right...

As parents, it's easy to replay the things we wish we had done differently.

There are moments we wish we had been more patient. Days we wish we had handled a situation better. Decisions we might change if we could go back. No parent is perfect, and if we're honest, we all have moments we'd like a do-over.

We've certainly had ours.

But every now and then, we take a step back and look at our son, and one thought rises above all the rest:

We may not be perfect, but when we look at our son, we know we got something in our life perfectly right.

Not because he's flawless—he isn't. None of us are.

But because of the kind of young man he has become.

He's respectful when no one is watching. He works hard without complaining. He keeps his commitments. He honors his family. He treats people with kindness and dignity. He loves the Lord. He has learned that success isn't handed to you—it comes through discipline, perseverance, and character.

Watching him grow into adulthood has been one of God's greatest blessings in our lives.

There were years filled with early mornings, late nights, long drives, sacrifices, difficult conversations, homeschooling, practices, competitions, disappointments, victories, and countless prayers. There were moments when we wondered if what we were pouring into him was taking root.

Now we see the fruit.

Parenting isn't about raising children who make us look good. It's about raising adults who will honor God long after they've left our home. 

The world tells parents to be their child's best friend.

God calls us to be their guide.

That means saying "no" when it's unpopular. It means teaching responsibility instead of making excuses. It means correcting with love, modeling integrity, and pointing them toward Christ even when it's hard.

Children learn far more from what they see than from what they hear.

They watch how we treat our spouse.

They watch how we respond to adversity.

They watch whether our faith is genuine or just something we talk about on Sundays.

Our example often becomes their foundation.

Psalm 127:3 reminds us:

"Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from Him."

What an incredible responsibility—and what an incredible privilege.

Looking back, we realize that while we made mistakes along the way, God was faithful. He filled in the gaps where we fell short. He gave wisdom when we asked, grace when we failed, and strength when we felt inadequate.

Any success we see in our son is ultimately a testimony to God's faithfulness far more than our parenting.

As he continues to chase his dreams, work hard, and follow the path God has for him, our prayer remains the same as it has always been:

That he would love Jesus more than success.

That he would value character more than recognition.

That he would lead with humility.

That he would never stop pursuing the purpose God has placed on his life.

No, we haven't been perfect parents.

Far from it.

But if raising a son who loves God, respects others, works hard, stays humble, and lives with integrity is any indication...

Then by God's grace, we got something beautifully right.

And for that, we'll be forever grateful. 

One Year Without You, Nan...

It's hard to believe it's been a year since you left us, Nan.

Losing you just a little over a year after Pop passed has left a hole in our family that can never truly be filled. Family gatherings aren't the same anymore. There are empty chairs where laughter once echoed. There are stories we wish we could still tell you in person. There are moments when we still instinctively think, "I can't wait to tell Nan," before remembering you're no longer here.

People often say time heals all wounds. I don't think that's entirely true.

Time teaches us how to carry the loss, but it never erases the love.

So much life has happened this past year.

Tim turned 18 and five days later he graduated from high school. He got his full class c driver's license. He started a new chapter of adulthood working with his dad. But perhaps the biggest milestone of all was becoming a USA Weightlifting Junior National Champion.

We couldn't help but think of you and Pop that day.

Scot and I can still picture how proud you both would have been. You watched Tim work toward that dream for years. You saw the countless hours of training, the setbacks, the disappointments, and the determination that never wavered.

When he stood on that podium as National Champion, our hearts were overflowing with joy—but there was also an ache.

We wished you were still here to share it.

We wished we could have called you afterward.

We wished we could have seen the smile on your face and heard you tell him how proud you were.

But even in the middle of that bittersweet moment, we found comfort knowing that while you weren't here with us, you are safely in the presence of the One you loved most, watching and smiling from heaven.

Scripture reminds us:

"To be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord." (2 Corinthians 5:8)

That promise doesn't erase the pain, but it gives us hope.

There have been birthdays, holidays, celebrations, and ordinary days that have all looked different without you and Pop. We miss your laughter, your hugs, your wisdom, and simply having you here.

Grief has a way of reminding us just how deeply we loved someone.

And what a gift that love was.

I'm so thankful for the years we all had together. Thankful for the memories you've left us. Thankful for the example you lived before us. Thankful that our goodbye isn't forever.

Because for those who know Christ, death isn't the end of the story.

It's simply "see you later."

Until that day, we'll continue living the lives you and Pop encouraged us to live—loving God, loving each other, working hard, celebrating life's victories, and trusting the Lord through every season.

We miss you every single day, Nan.

Not a day goes by that you and Pop don't cross our minds.

Thank you for loving us so well.

We'll carry your memory in our hearts until we're together again.

"He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain..." (Revelation 21:4)

Until we see you again, We love you, Nan.

A Godly Wife Begins with a Godly Heart...

Now you didn't think I was going to write a husband post and not do a wife one did you???

A Godly Wife Begins with a Godly Heart...

There are countless opinions today about what a woman should be.

Culture tells women to chase success, independence, status, or approval. Others reduce a woman's worth to appearances or accomplishments. But God's Word paints a much more beautiful picture.

A godly wife isn't defined by perfection.

She is defined by her pursuit of Christ.

Scripture says it this way:

"Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised." (Proverbs 31:30)

God isn't looking for a woman who has it all together. He's looking for a woman whose heart belongs to Him.

As I looked over this list, I smiled—and then I laughed a little. Not because I disagree with it, but because I know just how often I fall short.

I've been married to Scot for nearly twenty years, and if there's anyone who knows my flaws, it's him. I'm not always patient. I don't always say the right thing. I get frustrated. I make mistakes. Sometimes I let stress get the best of me. I have to apologize. I have to ask for forgiveness.

I'm far from being the "perfect Proverbs 31 wife."

But every day I ask God to make me a little more like Jesus than I was the day before.

That's the goal.

Not perfection.

Faithfulness.

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She Loves God Above All Things

Everything starts here.

Before I'm a wife.
Before I'm a mother.
Before I'm a business owner...

I'm first a daughter of the King.

I've learned that when I neglect my relationship with the Lord, every other relationship suffers. I become less patient, less gracious, and much more focused on myself than on serving others.

The closer I stay to Christ, the better wife I become—not because I'm trying harder, but because He's changing my heart.

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She Loves Her Husband and Children

Love isn't merely a feeling—it's a daily choice.

Marriage isn't always easy. Raising children certainly isn't easy. There are seasons of joy, exhaustion, celebration, and disappointment.

As Scot and I approach twenty years of marriage, I can honestly say our marriage hasn't been sustained because we're perfect people. It's been sustained because God has been faithful.

There have been times when I've needed far more grace than I've deserved, and Scot has extended it anyway. I'm thankful that our marriage has always been built on forgiveness rather than keeping score.

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She Shows Self-Control

If I'm honest, this is one God continues to work on in me.

Sometimes I react before I pray.

Sometimes I speak before I think.

Sometimes my emotions try to lead instead of the Holy Spirit.

Thankfully, God's mercies are new every morning.

He's still teaching me that self-control isn't about willpower—it's about surrender.

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She Is the Keeper of the Home

This doesn't mean my house is always spotless.

Anyone who's dropped by unexpectedly can probably testify to that!

It means I want our home to be a place where people feel welcomed, loved, encouraged, and where Christ is honored.

A peaceful home isn't created by perfect decorating or perfect housekeeping.

It's created by people who continually choose love, forgiveness, and grace.

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She Is a Servant

Serving doesn't always come naturally.

Most of the time I'd rather be served.

These days, more often than not, I'm tired.

There's lots of times that I'm selfish.

Yet Jesus continually reminds me that greatness in His Kingdom looks very different than greatness in the world.

Every opportunity to serve is really an opportunity to become more like Him.

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She Is Grateful

One lesson God keeps teaching me is gratitude.

It's easy to notice what's wrong.

It takes intentionality to notice what's right.

When I stop and count my blessings, I realize just how much God has done.

A husband who loves Jesus.

A son who loves the Lord.

A growing family business.

A home filled with memories.

God has been incredibly good to me.

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She Is Modest

Modesty isn't just about what we wear.

It's about humility.

It's about pointing people toward Christ instead of ourselves.

The older I get, the less concerned I am with impressing people and the more concerned I am with pleasing God.

That's a much better way to live.

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She Is Kind

Kindness is something the world desperately needs.

I don't always get it right.

Many times my words are sharper than they should be.

Sometimes I'm impatient.

But God faithfully convicts me, softens my heart, and reminds me that people are drawn to grace far more than criticism.

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Progress, Not Perfection

If this list feels overwhelming, remember this:

God isn't looking for perfect wives. 

If He were, none of us would qualify.

He's looking for women whose hearts are fully surrendered to Him.

I'm still learning.

I'm still growing.

I'm still failing at times.

And I'm still amazed that God's grace meets me every single day.

One of the greatest gifts God has given me is a husband who extends that same grace. Scot has loved me through my strengths and my weaknesses, celebrated my victories, forgiven my failures, and continually pointed me back to Christ. I thank God often for the man He gave me, because he reminds me what unconditional love looks like.

Being a godly wife isn't about checking every box on a list.

It's about waking up every day and saying, "Lord, make me more like You today than I was yesterday."

That's a prayer God delights in answering.

A Godly Husband Leads Like Christ...

The world has done a great job confusing what it means to be a man.

Some believe leadership means being in charge. Others think it means demanding respect, getting your own way, or having the final say. But when we open God's Word, we see something completely different.

Biblical leadership has never been about power—it has always been about responsibility.

Jesus, the King of kings, didn't come to be served. He came to serve. He washed His disciples' feet. He laid down His life. He sacrificed everything for those He loved.

That is the model God gives husbands.

As I was reading through this list, I couldn't help but smile because it immediately made me think of my husband, Scot. We've been married for nearly twenty years, and while neither of us would ever claim to be perfect, I have been incredibly blessed with a husband who genuinely strives to honor Christ in the way he loves our family. Watching him over the years has given me a front-row seat to what biblical leadership really looks like.

Love Her Sacrificially

"Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave Himself up for her." — Ephesians 5:25

That's an incredibly high standard.

Jesus didn't love only when it was convenient. He loved completely, selflessly, and sacrificially.

A godly husband asks, "How can I serve my wife today?" instead of "What can she do for me?"

Scot has modeled this in countless ways over the years. Whether it's working long hours to provide for our family, helping around the house without being asked, supporting me through difficult seasons, or simply putting our needs ahead of his own, he's shown me that real love is found in sacrifice—not selfishness.

Real love gives.
Real love serves.
Real love protects.
Real love sacrifices.

Lead Her Spiritually

One of the greatest responsibilities a husband carries is setting the spiritual tone of his home.

That doesn't mean having all the answers or pretending to be perfect.

It means pursuing Christ first.

It means praying, opening God's Word, living it out, asking forgiveness when you've failed, and leading by example.

One of the things I've appreciated most about Scot is that our home has always been rooted in faith. Whether it was supporting our decision to homeschool, encouraging Tim in his walk with Christ, or reminding our family that God comes first, he's consistently pointed us toward Jesus instead of himself.

Honor Her Consistently

Respect isn't something reserved for church or when other people are watching.

It's shown in everyday conversations.

How you speak to your wife...
How you speak about your wife...
How you respond when you're frustrated...

Those moments reveal your heart.

I've never had to wonder if Scot respected me. Whether we're at home or out in public, he treats me with kindness, dignity, and love. That kind of consistency builds trust and strengthens a marriage.

Provide Faithfully

Providing is much more than bringing home a paycheck.

It's showing up every day with integrity.

It's carrying responsibility without complaining.

It's making sure your family knows they're loved and cared for.

For nearly twenty years, Scot has faithfully carried that responsibility. Through busy seasons, uncertain seasons, and seasons of blessing, he has worked hard to provide for our family. I don't take that for granted.

Listen Attentively

Listening is one of the greatest expressions of love.

A wise husband values his wife's heart, thoughts, burdens, and perspective.

Sometimes we don't need someone to fix our problems—we simply need someone to hear us.

I'm thankful that Scot has always been willing to listen, even when life gets busy. Feeling heard is one of the greatest gifts a spouse can give.

Protect Her Tenderly

Protection isn't about control.

It's about creating a place of safety.

A godly husband guards his wife emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

He doesn't use fear, manipulation, or intimidation.

He uses strength with gentleness.

I've always known Scot would stand between our family and anything that threatened us. His strength has never been about demanding authority—it has been about providing security, stability, and peace. That's the kind of protection God intended.

Christ Is the Standard

A godly husband does not rule through intimidation.

He doesn't lead by fear.

He doesn't demand submission while refusing sacrifice.

He leads through humility.

He leads through service.

He leads through love.

He leads by following Christ.

I know there are many women who long for this kind of marriage, and my heart truly goes out to them. No husband is perfect—Scot would be the first to tell you he isn't—but I thank God that he has always desired to become more like Jesus. That has made all the difference in our marriage.

As we approach twenty years together this November, I find myself more grateful than ever. God knew exactly who I needed. Scot has been my partner, my encourager, the father of our son, and one of God's greatest blessings in my life.

The world doesn't need more men who seek power.

It needs more men who seek Christ.

Because when a husband follows Jesus wholeheartedly, his family experiences the love of Christ through him.

And to my husband—thank you for loving me the way Christ has called you to. I thank God for you every single day.

(I saw these on social media and wanted to share them here while making this blog post)

More Than a Coach...

"How you treat your athletes is a direct reflection of who you are as a coach."

That statement reaches far beyond sports.

It's easy to measure a coach by championships, trophies, or a winning record. Those accomplishments certainly have their place. Competition is meant to challenge us, teach discipline, and inspire excellence. But when the season is over and the medals are packed away, what remains?

The answer is simple: people.

Every athlete will eventually forget some of the scores, statistics, and even many of the games. But they'll never forget how their coach made them feel.

Did they feel encouraged or constantly torn down?

Did they feel like they mattered, even when they weren't the best player on the team?

Did they know someone believed in them when they doubted themselves?

Those are the moments that shape lives.

The Bible reminds us in Colossians 3:23, "Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men." Coaching is no exception. It's more than teaching fundamentals or developing physical ability. It's an opportunity to reflect Christ through patience, integrity, encouragement, and love.

A coach's words carry tremendous weight. One sentence can either build confidence or plant seeds of doubt that last for years. One act of kindness can change the trajectory of a young person's life. Every practice, every correction, every conversation is an opportunity to build character—not just athletic ability.

The greatest coaches understand that leadership isn't about demanding respect; it's about earning it.

It's found in being patient when an athlete struggles.

It's found in correcting without humiliating.

It's found in treating every athlete with dignity—not just the stars, but the ones who rarely hear their name announced or spend most of the game on the bench.

While my son competes in Olympic weightlifting, which is considered an individual sport, I've come to realize there really is no such thing as an athlete who succeeds entirely on their own. His name may be the only one on the platform, but every lift reflects the people who have invested in him along the way. His coach, his training partners, the encouragement they offer, the standards they uphold, and the culture they create all play a part in his success. You don't build great athletes in isolation—you build them through relationships. That's why great coaching matters just as much in an individual sport as it does in a team sport.

Jesus modeled this kind of leadership perfectly. He invested in people the world overlooked. He led with truth, but He also led with compassion. He challenged people to grow while never forgetting their value. That's the kind of leadership every coach should strive for.

Wins are exciting.

Championships are memorable.

Records are meant to be broken.

But character leaves a legacy.

Years from now, your athletes probably won't remember every drill you ran or every game plan you drew up. They will remember whether you showed up for them. They'll remember if you treated them with respect. They'll remember whether your actions matched your words.

As coaches, teachers, parents, pastors, employers—or anyone God has entrusted with influence—we should all ask ourselves one question:

Am I building performers, or am I building people?

Because one day the scoreboard will be forgotten, but the impact you made on someone's life will last for eternity.

"Let all that you do be done in love." — 1 Corinthians 16:14

Standards Aren't Selfish...

"I don't have expectations. I have standards."

At first glance, that statement may sound harsh. Some may even think it's prideful. But after thinking about it, I realized there's a big difference between expecting perfection and having healthy standards.

I don't expect people to never make mistakes. I don't expect them to always say the right thing or never disappoint me, my son, or my husband. We've made enough mistakes ourselves to know we're all imperfect.

But I do believe there are certain qualities that every healthy relationship should be built upon.

Respect my time.

Time is one of God's greatest gifts. Once it's gone, we can never get it back. When someone consistently values your time, they're showing they value you.

Match my effort.

Relationships were never meant to be one-sided. Whether it's a friendship, teammate, marriage, family relationship, or even working together in ministry, healthy relationships require both people to invest. One person shouldn't always be carrying the entire load.

Keep your word.

Your word is your reputation. Jesus said, "Let your 'Yes' be yes, and your 'No,' no." (Matthew 5:37). Integrity is shown not by the promises we make but by the promises we keep.

Tell the truth.

Truth builds trust. Lies destroy it.

Honesty isn't always easy, but it's always better than deception. A difficult truth may sting for a moment, but a lie can damage a relationship for years.

Stay consistent.

Anyone can be kind when life is easy.

Character is revealed through consistency. Faithfulness isn't about grand gestures—it's about showing up day after day with the same integrity and the same heart.

Take ownership.

We're all going to fail.

The difference is what we do after we fail.

Mature people apologize without excuses. They learn, they grow, and they take responsibility instead of shifting blame. That's what humility looks like.

Protect my peace.

This isn't about avoiding difficult conversations or pretending life is perfect.

It's about refusing to allow unnecessary chaos, manipulation, or constant drama to have a permanent place in our lives.

God has done too much work in our hearts for us to willingly hand our peace over to someone else's dysfunction.

Philippians 4:7 tells us that God's peace "will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus."

If God values our peace enough to guard it, shouldn't we?

These aren't unrealistic expectations.

They're healthy standards.

Standards aren't walls built to keep people out.

They're guardrails that help keep healthy relationships healthy.

Jesus loved everyone, but He didn't entrust Himself to everyone (John 2:24). He forgave freely, but He also walked away from those who continually rejected the truth. He served others with humility, yet He regularly withdrew to spend time with His Father and wasn't controlled by the demands of the crowd.

That tells us something important.

Having boundaries isn't unloving.

It's biblical.

We are called to love everyone, forgive freely, extend grace generously, and pray for those who hurt us.

But loving people doesn't mean accepting dishonesty.

Forgiveness doesn't require tolerating repeated disrespect.

Grace doesn't eliminate accountability.

And protecting your peace doesn't make you selfish—it makes you a wise steward of the heart God has entrusted to you.

So no, we don't expect perfection.

But we do have standards.

Not because we're better than anyone else.

Because healthy relationships require honesty, respect, integrity, responsibility, and peace.

Those aren't unreasonable expectations.

They're simply the foundation upon which lasting relationships are built.

Love Doesn't Mean Losing Yourself...

At first glance, this quote seems simple.

But when you really think about it, it raises an important question for Christians:

If Jesus taught us to love everyone, does that mean we have to allow everyone unlimited access to our lives?

For many years, I believed that being a good Christian meant always saying "yes."

Yes to every request.

Yes to every criticism.

Yes to every unhealthy relationship.

Yes to being mistreated.

Somewhere along the way, many believers have confused loving people with allowing people to continually hurt them.

The two are not the same.

Jesus Loved Everyone—But He Had Boundaries

One of the greatest misconceptions in the Church is that Jesus never established boundaries.

He absolutely did.

Jesus loved sinners, yet He didn't participate in their sin.

He forgave those who crucified Him, yet He didn't entrust Himself to everyone.

John 2:24 tells us:

"But Jesus did not entrust Himself to them, because He knew all people."

Think about that.

Jesus loved people completely, but He was also discerning.

He knew that not everyone was safe.

Not everyone was trustworthy.

Not everyone deserved unrestricted access to His life.

If the Son of God exercised wisdom in His relationships, why do we think we shouldn't?

Forgiveness Is Required. Trust Is Earned.

One of the hardest lessons I've had to learn is that forgiveness and reconciliation are not always the same thing.

God calls us to forgive.

He never commands us to remain in abusive, manipulative, or destructive relationships.

Forgiveness releases the offense.

Boundaries protect the heart God has entrusted to you.

You can genuinely forgive someone while also recognizing that they have repeatedly shown they cannot be trusted.

That isn't bitterness.

That's wisdom.

Love Doesn't Mean Becoming a Doormat

Some people will quote verses about turning the other cheek as if Christians should simply endure endless disrespect.

But Scripture also teaches wisdom.

Proverbs 4:23 says:

"Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it."

Guarding your heart isn't building walls around it.

It's placing healthy gates around it.

Not everyone gets a key.

Some people bring peace into your life.

Others continually bring chaos.

Some encourage your faith.

Others constantly pull you away from God.

Some celebrate God's work in your life.

Others criticize, manipulate, or only show up when they want something.

Loving those people does not require giving them unrestricted access to your time, emotions, or peace.

Even Paul Walked Away

The Apostle Paul wasn't afraid to separate himself from people who continually caused harm.

He warned believers about divisive people.

He parted ways with Barnabas over a disagreement.

He even instructed Timothy to be discerning about who he allowed into leadership.

Why?

Because relationships influence us.

Scripture never teaches us to ignore wisdom in the name of kindness.

Healthy Boundaries Honor God

Sometimes setting a boundary is the most loving thing you can do.

It allows someone to experience the consequences of their choices.

It protects your own spiritual, emotional, and even physical well-being.

It gives room for healing instead of enabling unhealthy behavior.

Healthy boundaries aren't about revenge.

They aren't about pride.

They aren't about thinking you're better than someone else.

They're about stewardship.

God has entrusted you with your life, your family, your calling, your peace, and your witness.

You have a responsibility to protect those things.

Who Deserves a Front-Row Seat?

Not everyone deserves a front-row seat in your life.

That doesn't mean you stop praying for them.

It doesn't mean you stop hoping they'll change.

It doesn't mean you stop loving them.

It simply means you recognize that love can exist alongside wisdom.

Jesus loved Judas.

But He also knew who Judas was.

Perhaps today you need permission to stop feeling guilty for establishing healthy boundaries.

If someone consistently treats you without love, kindness, or respect, it doesn't make you unchristian to limit their influence in your life.

You can forgive without becoming a doormat.

You can love without enabling sin.

You can extend grace while still exercising wisdom.

And you can honor God by surrounding yourself with people who encourage your faith, sharpen your character, and reflect His love.

Because biblical love isn't the absence of boundaries.

It's the presence of truth, grace, and wisdom working together.

"Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm." — Proverbs 13:20

Choose your close relationships wisely.

Your heart is valuable.

Guard it well—not with fear, but with the wisdom God provides.

When There Is No Ref to Stop the Fight...

When There Is No Ref to Stop the Fight...

Before the main event event started last night, I already knew the verse I wanted to share today:

"Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called..." — 1 Timothy 6:12

This has always been one of my favorite Bible verses.

Watching the UFC fights reminded me of something. Everyone waits all night for the main event. The anticipation builds, the introductions are made, and then...just like that, it was over. A minute and nine seconds into the fight, the referee waved it off after Conor McGregor suffered a devastating knee injury.

Just like that, the fight was finished.

It was disappointing for everyone who had waited hours to watch.

But life isn't like that.

There isn't a referee who waves it off when things get hard. There isn't someone who steps in and says, "That's enough. You can stop fighting now."

When grief hits...
When relationships fall apart...
When finances get tight...
When your health declines...
When disappointment knocks the wind out of you...

The fight continues.

The Apostle Paul wasn't talking about a physical fight in 1 Timothy. He was talking about a spiritual one. Every single day we are faced with choices. Will we trust God or our fears? Will we walk in faith or surrender to discouragement? Will we forgive, love, persevere, and obey even when it's difficult?

That's the good fight.

Notice Paul didn't say to fight every fight. Not every argument deserves your attention. Not every offense deserves a response. Not every battle is yours to win.

He said to "fight the good fight of the faith."

The enemy would love nothing more than for us to become distracted, discouraged, or defeated. He wants us to quit before we experience what God has planned for us.

But God calls us to keep going.

Sometimes fighting the good fight looks less like throwing punches and more like getting out of bed when your heart is heavy. Sometimes it looks like praying when you don't feel anything. Sometimes it's choosing forgiveness instead of bitterness, peace instead of revenge, or hope instead of despair.

Those may not make headlines, but heaven notices.

The beautiful part of this verse is that it doesn't stop with fighting.

It says to "take hold of the eternal life to which you were called."

Our hope isn't rooted in temporary victories or earthly success. It's rooted in Christ. This world is not the finish line. We live with eternity in view, knowing that every hardship, every trial, and every faithful step is preparing us for something far greater than what this life has to offer.

So if you're tired today...

Keep fighting.

If you're discouraged...

Keep trusting.

If you've been knocked down...

Get back up.

The fight may be difficult, but it is worth it because we already know who wins in the end.

"Fight the good fight.

Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called."

Don't quit before God finishes what He started in you.

Everything You Need Is Already in Christ...

Every once in a while, you read a statement that is so full of biblical truth that you have to stop and read it again.

This quote from Nancy Dufresne did exactly that for me.

I've listened to Nancy teach for a while now, and one of the things I appreciate most about her ministry is how she continually points believers back to who they are in Christ. She has spent decades faithfully teaching the Word of God with clarity and helping Christians understand that victory isn't something we earn—it's something Jesus already purchased for us. 

Think about her quote for a moment.

Everything God dreamed.

Everything God planned.

Not some things.

Not most things.

Everything.

Before you were ever born, before you ever made your first mistake, before you ever wondered if you were enough, God had already prepared everything you would ever need. But He didn't place it in your talents. He didn't place it in your bank account. He didn't place it in your education, your career, or your own strength.

He placed it in Christ.

Then comes the beautiful part.

God didn't leave Christ at a distance.

He placed Christ in us.

And He placed us in Christ.

That changes everything.

So many believers spend their lives praying as though God is withholding something from them.

"Lord, give me peace."

"Lord, give me strength."

"Lord, give me wisdom."

"Lord, help me overcome."

Yet Scripture paints a different picture.

Paul writes:

"Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places in Christ."
— Ephesians 1:3

Notice the tense.

Not will bless us.

Not might bless us.

Has blessed us.

Everything we need has already been provided through Jesus Christ.

That doesn't mean we never face challenges. It doesn't mean life is easy. It doesn't mean we never experience disappointment or hardship.

It means we never face those things alone.

The same Christ who conquered sin, death, fear, lack, and every work of the enemy now lives within every believer.

When we truly understand that, our prayers begin to change.

Instead of begging God for something He has already provided, we begin thanking Him for what already belongs to us in Christ.

Instead of living from a place of lack, we begin living from a place of inheritance.

Instead of striving to become accepted, we rest in knowing we already are.

One of my favorite verses is Colossians 2:10:

"And you are complete in Him..."

Complete.

Not incomplete.

Not waiting for one more breakthrough before God can use you.

Not waiting until you have everything figured out.

Complete in Him.

That doesn't mean we've arrived spiritually. We all continue growing in our knowledge of Christ. But our identity isn't based on how mature we feel today. It's based on where God placed us.

In Christ.

Maybe today you've been feeling inadequate.

Maybe you've been focusing more on what you lack than on what Christ has already supplied.

Maybe you've been trying to carry burdens that Jesus never intended for you to carry alone.

Remember Nancy Dufresne's words.

Everything God dreamed and planned for His children is found in Christ.

And if you belong to Jesus...

You're already in the right place.

Stop looking everywhere else for what God has already placed within your reach.

Look to Christ.

Because when you have Him, you have everything you need to fulfill the purpose God has for your life. 

"Christ in you, the hope of glory." — Colossians 1:27

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Let's Pray This Together

Father, thank You that You have already provided everything I need through Jesus Christ. Help me to stop living from a mindset of lack and begin living from the truth of Your Word. Open my eyes to understand more fully who I am in Christ and all that belongs to me because of Him. Teach me to rely on Your strength instead of my own and to walk confidently in the inheritance You have already given me. In Jesus' name, Amen.