Family Pic 2025

Family Pic 2025
Tucker, Scot, Lisa, Tim & Stella

Wednesday, May 13, 2026

Faith Strengthens Your Journey Forward...


Faith Strengthens Your Journey Forward...

Faith isn’t just something we hold onto in easy seasons—it’s what carries us through the ones we didn’t expect.

There are moments in life when clarity feels far away. You pray, but answers feel delayed. You trust, but emotions don’t always follow. You believe God is good, yet you’re walking through something that doesn’t feel good at all. And in those spaces, faith stops being theoretical and becomes deeply personal.

Faith is what keeps you moving when understanding runs out.

One of the most powerful pictures of faith in Scripture is found in the idea of endurance—continuing forward even when the outcome isn’t fully visible yet. As described in the Book of Hebrews, faith is “the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” In other words, faith is what anchors you when life doesn’t look like what you expected.

And here’s the quiet truth many people discover over time: faith doesn’t always remove the difficulty, but it changes how you carry it.

Instead of being crushed by uncertainty, faith gives you something steady to stand on. Instead of assuming every delay is a denial, faith teaches you to trust timing beyond your own. Instead of interpreting every closed door as rejection, faith helps you believe there may be redirection happening that you can’t yet see.

Faith strengthens your journey forward by reshaping what you lean on.

You stop leaning only on outcomes and start leaning on God’s character.

You stop needing every question answered immediately and start trusting that peace can exist even in unanswered spaces.

You stop measuring progress only by what changes around you and begin recognizing what God is changing within you.

And often, that internal work is the real strengthening.

Because as faith grows, so does resilience. You become more grounded. More steady. Less easily shaken by temporary circumstances. Not because life gets easier, but because your foundation gets deeper.

Faith also reminds you that you are not walking alone. Even when you feel unseen or misunderstood, there is a steady presence guiding you forward. And sometimes, the greatest strength you gain is simply the ability to take the next step without having the whole staircase revealed.

So wherever you are in your journey right now—whether things feel clear or completely uncertain—faith is still working.

It’s shaping you.
Steadying you.
Strengthening you.

And step by step, it carries you forward into what you couldn’t yet reach on your own.

Let God Refill What Truly Matters...


“I Will Restore…” — Let God Refill What Truly Matters

This verse in Joel has comforted countless people walking through loss, heartbreak, disappointment, and seasons that felt empty.

God is a God of restoration.

He sees every season where you felt depleted. Every year you spent grieving, struggling, surviving, or simply trying to hold things together. Nothing is wasted in His hands. He knows what was taken from you—whether it was time, peace, joy, opportunities, relationships, or hope itself.

And while many people phrase this verse as, “The Lord will give back seven times what you lost,” the heart behind it is still true: God has a way of restoring beyond what we could imagine.

But sometimes restoration doesn’t look like God giving us more stuff.

Sometimes restoration begins when we finally let go of what’s weighing us down.

That includes physical clutter too.

It’s amazing how often we hold onto things because we’re afraid of loss. We keep boxes of unused items, piles of clutter, and things tied to old seasons because somewhere deep down we think letting go means we’ll have less.

But God’s restoration is never dependent on our ability to hold onto everything.

In fact, sometimes we can’t receive the new because our hands, homes, minds, and hearts are too full of things we no longer need.

We’ve been decluttering a lot lately ourselves, and honestly, it’s been freeing in more ways than one. The more we let go of unnecessary things, the more peace we’ve felt in our home. Less chaos. Less stress. Less distraction.

Life is too short to spend it buried under stuff that no longer serves a purpose.

And maybe that’s part of what restoration looks like too—not replacing every material thing we lost, but restoring peace, clarity, joy, and room to breathe again.

God restores differently than the world does.

The world says:
“Hold onto everything because you might need it someday.”

God often says:
“Trust Me enough to let go.”

Sometimes the very things we cling to are keeping us tied to old seasons God is trying to move us beyond.

The beautiful thing about God is that when He restores, He doesn’t just replace what was lost—He renews what was broken. He brings beauty from ashes. Wisdom from pain. Strength from suffering. Peace from chaos.

And none of that can be bought, stored in bins, or stacked in closets.

So if you’re in a season of letting go—whether emotionally, spiritually, or even physically through decluttering—don’t fear the empty spaces.

God often fills surrendered spaces with something far better.

Don't Keep What You Don't Need...


Don't Keep What You Don't Need...

We live in a world that tells us to hold onto everything.

The jeans that might fit again someday.
The kitchen gadget we haven’t touched in five years.
The pile of “just in case” items collecting dust in closets, drawers, garages, and storage bins.

Somewhere along the way, many of us started believing that letting go is wasteful. But the truth is, clutter costs us far more than we realize.

Repeat after me:

Getting rid of stuff isn’t wasteful. Holding on to what you don’t need is.

Holding onto excess steals space from your home and peace from your mind. It creates overwhelm every time you open a closet, walk into a crowded room, or search endlessly for something you actually use. What’s truly wasteful is allowing things that no longer serve a purpose to take up valuable room in your life.

Not everything we own is meant to stay forever.

Sometimes an item served its purpose in one season and simply doesn’t belong in the next. And that’s okay. Releasing it doesn’t mean you’re ungrateful. It doesn’t mean you failed. It means you’re making room for what matters now.

The reality is this:
If you haven’t used it, worn it, needed it, or even remembered you owned it in years, chances are you’re not keeping it because it’s valuable—you’re keeping it out of guilt.

Guilt over money spent.
Guilt over gifts received.
Guilt over memories attached.

But your home should not become a storage unit for guilt.

A peaceful home isn’t built by keeping everything. It’s built by being intentional about what stays.

And here’s something freeing to remember:
Blessing someone else with items you no longer need is far better than letting them sit untouched in boxes. Someone else may be able to use what’s been sitting idle in your home for years.

Decluttering isn’t about becoming minimalistic or getting rid of everything you love. It’s about creating space to breathe again. Space to think clearly. Space to enjoy your home instead of constantly managing it.

So today, let go of the pressure to keep everything “just because.”

The memories will remain.
The meaningful things will stay.
And the peace that comes from less clutter is worth far more than the burden of holding onto what you no longer need.

Repeat it one more time:

Getting rid of stuff isn’t wasteful. Holding on to what you don’t need is.

And FYI—we’ve been doing a major decluttering ourselves and getting rid of tons of things we simply don’t need anymore. The more we let go of, the lighter and more peaceful our home feels. Life is far too short to let stuff take over your home, your mind, and your time. At the end of the day, things are just things—but peace is priceless.

Stop. Breathe. Let The Noise Settle.


Stop. Breathe. Let the Noise Settle.

We live in a world that constantly tells us to keep going.
Move faster.
Work harder.
Answer quicker.
Do more.
Be more.

Somewhere along the way, many of us started believing that resting meant weakness and slowing down meant falling behind. But the truth is, constantly running on empty eventually catches up with us. The mind grows tired. The heart grows heavy. And the soul begins craving quiet.

That’s why sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is simply stop, breathe, and let the noise settle.

Not every situation needs an immediate response.
Not every opinion deserves your energy.
Not every season of life is meant to be rushed through.

There is wisdom in pausing.

When we stop long enough to breathe deeply and quiet the chaos around us, something beautiful happens. We begin to hear clearly again. The fear softens. The pressure loosens its grip. The confusion that once felt overwhelming no longer feels quite so loud.

In the stillness, clarity often finds us.

So many times we search for peace in external things—more productivity, more control, more answers—when peace is often found in surrendering the need to carry everything at once. Sometimes the breakthrough we need isn’t found in striving harder but in allowing ourselves a moment to simply be still.

For me, some of the most meaningful moments in life haven’t happened in the middle of noise and busyness. They’ve happened in quiet moments with God, in deep breaths after hard days, in pauses where I realized I didn’t have to have everything figured out immediately.

Life will always have distractions. The world will always be loud. But protecting your peace is not selfish—it’s necessary.

So if today feels overwhelming, this is your reminder:

Pause for a moment.
Step away from the noise.
Take deep breaths
—while having that quiet moment with God.

Trust that clarity will come. Strength will return. And peace will find you when you finally allow yourself to be still long enough to receive it. ✨

Tuesday, May 12, 2026

The Keepers...


The Keepers

Life has a way of revealing who people truly are.

Some people walk into our lives for a season. Some stay only when things are easy, convenient, or beneficial for them. But every once in a while, God blesses us with rare people—the kind who show up when life falls apart, stand beside us in the middle of the storm, and still remain when the sun starts shining again.

Those are the keepers.

They’re the ones who answer the phone when your voice is shaking. The ones who pray for you when you’re too exhausted to pray for yourself. The ones who sit with you in grief, encourage you through uncertainty, and remind you who you are when you’ve forgotten.

True loyalty is revealed in hard seasons.

Anyone can celebrate you when life is good. Anyone can applaud your victories, smile for the photos, and enjoy the highlights. But the people who quietly walk with you through heartbreak, disappointment, failure, loss, and struggle—those people are gifts.

And what makes them even more special is this: they don’t disappear once life gets better.

They stay.

They cheer the loudest when you heal.
They celebrate your growth without jealousy.
They are genuinely happy to see you thrive.
They don’t compete with your blessings—they thank God for them with you.

That kind of love and friendship is rare.

In a world where relationships can feel temporary and surface-level, the “keepers” are the ones who remind us what loyalty, compassion, and unconditional support really look like.

If you have people like that in your life, treasure them. Tell them you love them. Appreciate their presence. Pray for them the way they’ve prayed for you. Never take for granted the people who stayed when they had every opportunity to walk away.

Because the people who stand beside you in your hardest moments and still celebrate your best moments are some of life’s greatest blessings.

Go Into All The World...


Go Into All the World

Jesus’ words were never meant to be a suggestion for a select few. They were a calling for every believer.

So often when we hear the word “mission field,” we picture faraway places, large crowds, or people standing behind pulpits. But the truth is, our mission field begins wherever God has placed us right now—our homes, workplaces, schools, neighborhoods, social media pages, and everyday conversations.

Sharing the Gospel doesn’t always look loud or dramatic. Sometimes it looks like kindness when someone least expects it. Sometimes it’s praying for a hurting friend, encouraging someone who feels hopeless, or simply living in a way that reflects the love of Christ.

The world is searching for peace, truth, hope, and purpose in so many different places. As believers, we already know where those things are found—in Jesus.

That doesn’t mean sharing our faith will always feel comfortable. There will be moments when we feel unqualified, nervous, or unsure of what to say. But God has never called us to be perfect—only willing and obedient. He will give us the words, opportunities, and courage we need when we trust Him.

Every day is an opportunity to shine His light in a dark world.

Someone around you may be silently struggling. Someone may be one prayer away from hope. Someone may need to hear that they are loved, seen, and not forgotten by God.

We don’t have to reach the entire world overnight. We simply have to be faithful with the people God places in front of us.

So today, let your life point people to Jesus.

Speak truth with love.
Show grace freely.
Pray boldly.
Live faithfully.

Because the Gospel still changes lives—and the world still needs to hear it.

Rest. Reset. Restart. Refocus.


Rest. Reset. Restart. Refocus.

There are seasons in life when the strongest thing you can do is pause.

Not quit.
Not give up.
Not walk away from your purpose.

Just pause long enough to breathe, pray, heal, and regain clarity.

We live in a world that constantly pushes us to keep going, keep producing, keep proving ourselves. But even God designed rest. Rest is not weakness—it’s wisdom. Sometimes your mind, body, and spirit simply need time to recover from the weight you’ve been carrying.

Maybe lately you’ve felt overwhelmed, discouraged, exhausted, distracted, or stretched too thin. Maybe life hasn’t gone the way you planned. Maybe you’ve been pouring into everyone else and running on empty yourself.

That’s when it’s time to:

Rest — because you are human, not a machine.
Reset — because your priorities, mindset, and peace matter.
Restart — because one hard season does not define your future.
Refocus — because distractions can pull you away from what truly matters.

And here’s the beautiful part: you can do it as many times as you need to.

Life is not ruined because you needed a break. Needing time to regroup doesn’t mean you failed. Sometimes growth looks less like constant motion and more like learning when to step back and allow God to strengthen you for what’s ahead.

There is no shame in slowing down.
There is no shame in beginning again.
There is no shame in protecting your peace.

Some of the most meaningful breakthroughs happen after moments of rest and reflection.

So if today you need permission to pause, here it is:

Rest without guilt.
Reset without fear.
Restart without shame.
Refocus with purpose.

Your story isn’t over. This may simply be the moment that prepares you for your next chapter.

This Boy Has My Heart...

I meant to post this picture on Mother’s Day, but we had such an incredibly busy day. Then yesterday was Tim’s birthday, so I’m just now getting around to posting it.

I’m so thankful for all the years the Lord has given me as his mom—and for all the years still ahead that He has in store for Scot and I as his parents.

He’s an amazing kid—young man—and we couldn’t be more proud of who he’s become.

Monday, May 11, 2026

Happy 18th Birthday!

You’re 18 today—and somehow that feels both impossible and exactly right. It truly feels like just yesterday you were a baby in our arms, and now here you are, stepping fully into manhood.

From the very beginning, we made a choice to be intentional with you—to cherish every moment, to pour into you, to raise you with purpose. Watching you grow into the man you are today has been one of the greatest blessings of our lives. You were a gift from God, and we have never taken that for granted. Even the timing of it all—our marriage, having you—reminds us that God’s plan is always right on time.

We haven’t done everything perfectly, but one thing has never wavered for even a second: our love for you. You are, and always will be, deeply loved beyond words.

On this milestone birthday, I want you to hear this clearly—no matter where life takes you or what path you choose, you will always have us in your corner. Always. We are so incredibly proud of you—your perseverance, your resilience, your determination. It’s a joy to watch you set goals and go after them, and an even greater joy to stand beside you, cheering you on every step of the way.

Keep pushing forward. Don’t let life hold you back. Walk boldly in your purpose, stay focused on what matters, and don’t be afraid to go after everything you want out of life. Be true to who you are, and never lose sight of where you’re headed. Celebrating you is one of our greatest joys. You are an amazing young man with so much life ahead of you, and we cannot wait to see all that you will become.

You are cherished—always and forever.
We love you to the moon and beyond.

Happy 18th Birthday. May this be a day you’ll always remember—and be a reminder of just how deeply you are loved—now and always!

And even though you haven't officially graduated yet—not until Saturday—you have officially finished high school. We wanted to celebrate both milestone moments on your birthday because this is the day you are officially done with high school. 

Sunday, May 10, 2026

Happy Mother's Day!

My mom had me at 17. I can’t even imagine becoming a parent that young, but that was the reality for many women then—marry, raise children, and keep a home while the men worked to provide. In so many ways, she was still a child herself, learning how to raise children.

And yet, she did the very best she could with what she had.

We never went without food. We always had clothes on our backs—even if they came from Goodwill or Kmart. She stretched every dollar, living within her means to make sure our needs were met. We didn’t have much in the way of money, but we had enough to get by, because she made sure of it.

She sacrificed more times than I can count, going without so that we wouldn’t have to. We didn’t hear “I love you” all the time, but she showed it—in her sacrifices, her consistency, and her care.

With her ongoing health issues, I’m reminded more than ever that time isn’t something we can take for granted. We don’t know how many more years we’ll have with her, and that reality makes me hold even tighter to the moments we do have.

I hope she knows how deeply she is loved and appreciated, especially on this Mother’s Day.

This sweet lady—our “Nan”—is missed more than words could ever express. This is our first Mother’s Day without her here to celebrate, and that absence is deeply felt. But we take comfort in knowing she’s exactly where she longed to be—back with Popsie in heaven.

Life threw us a curveball after Popsie passed. We never imagined our time with Nan would be so short—just a year and two months without him. It still doesn’t feel like enough.

That last year was especially hard, because we didn’t fully understand what she was going through. Nan wasn’t one to go to the doctor—she hadn’t been in decades. So when we finally learned near the end that she had lung cancer, it was devastating for all of us.

Nan was an incredible mom and grandmother. She always put her children and grandchildren before herself, cherishing every moment she had with them. The love she poured out when she was with her family spoke louder than words ever could. We knew how special she was, and we didn’t take that for granted. We made the time, we made the memories—and I’m so grateful we did. Those moments will stay with us forever.

We miss her deeply, but we also have peace in knowing she is no longer in pain—that she is whole, healed, and happy again. And that means everything.

Happy Heavenly Mother’s Day to the most amazing mom, grandmother, and mother-in-law the Neal family could have ever been blessed with.

Last but certainly not least, there’s this incredible woman—Anne. She has been like a second mom to me ever since I met her at just 8 years old.

She and her husband, John, moved from Georgia to pastor the church I was attending at the time—thanks to a sweet older neighbor who made sure we kids were there every Sunday. That year, they were leading VBS, and something in Anne’s love drew me in. She loved me in a way I had never experienced before, and I held onto that—honestly, I still do.

Anne has had an immeasurable impact on my life and my walk with Christ. Her love for the Lord radiates from every part of who she is, and it’s evident in the way she loves and pours into others.

The ways she has shaped my life are too many to count. Her influence has never left me—it’s something I carry with me every single day. I truly don’t know where I would be without her. My life would look very different if God hadn’t placed an “Anne” in it, and I’m forever grateful that He did.

God blessed me richly when He brought her into my life.

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In my life, there have been three women who have shaped me in a motherly way and left a lasting impact on who I am today. Because of them, I have been incredibly blessed. The value of that kind of influence in a person’s life can’t really be measured—it’s beyond what words are able to fully capture.

I hope and pray that you have had mothers or mother figures like that in your own life—women who have poured into you, guided you, and left a lasting imprint on your heart. And if you haven’t, I pray that God brings someone into your life who will. Someone who will love, shape, and impact you in a way that stays with you forever, just like these women have done for me.

Happy Mother's Day!

May All  Mom's Feel Loved & Appreciated 

Today & Always!